Tuesday, June 17, 2014

It’s Official: We’re Moving!

Ben and I have lived in our home for seven and a half years. It was our first home that we bought at the height of the housing market to renovate and flip for a profit (like a lot of other naïve 20somethings). And while the quick flip didn’t happen, the renovations did! Ben built a beautiful deck, a fence, and an amazing custom shed. We replaced all the windows and I painted every inch of the trim white. I also painted the outside of the house and every inside wall at least once. We tiled and updated both bathrooms and the kitchen. We completely transformed our backyard planting hundreds of plants, adding a rock garden, fruit trees, a rose garden, raspberries and strawberries. And while I was pregnant with Josh, we even laid bamboo floor all by ourselves. We learned A LOT about renovations in this home!

More importantly than all the work, this was the place we brought our three sweet babies home to. It has been a haven of wonderful moments and memories. It has housed spit up, diaper changes, sleepless nights, potty training and fits. Those aren’t what I remember the most, though. I remember the laughter, wrestling, hugs and kisses. I remember the boys learning to crawl down the hallway and turning the corner into the kitchen to find me. I remember handing Seth and Sam their bottles at the kitchen sink and watching them toddle back to their cribs. I remember Joshy learning to crawl and desperately trying to get into Seth and Sam’s bedroom to play legos with them. I remember quiet evenings, just Ben and I, sitting outside at the fire pit, proud of what we made into a home. It’s the home where I learned to be a homemaker and a mother. And the home where Seth and Sam learned to build legos, read, and be a good big brother to Josh.

I could spent pages and pages listing my memories, and maybe some day I will. But now, let me tell you a bit about what we’re going to!

We’re moving to a small town Northwest of Portland called Scappoose. Ben and I have been looking at properties up there for more than a year, and our “perfect” home finally came up for sale in April. I say “perfect” because someday it will be—with A LOT of work. Yep, that’s right, we’re moving into another fixer-upper, and this one we’re not just battling 80’s pink and purple tile. We’re talking full-on 60’s motif: the kitchen has brown and yellow tile, and there’s a bathroom that’s we’ve affectionately titled the “Sunset” bathroom due to pink and blue tile that’s covering every inch of the walls and counters. But, it has good bones.

AND it’s on .68 acres and is a whole 600 square feet bigger than what we’re currently living in. Oh, I breathe a sigh of relief when I think of the amount of space. It has four bedrooms, plus a playroom. And the boys can run, play, and build dirt piles for days—and I’ll still be able to have my pretty landscape and yard. Oh we are so excited!

So, in less than two weeks, we’ll be on to our next adventure! We’re looking forward to living in a smaller community and a bigger home with outdoor room for the boys to run. We’re so grateful for God guiding us through a pretty stressful home selling/buying experience and learned a lot of very important lessons (maybe some day I’ll detail the whole story—it’s  been a rollercoaster ride!)

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Sammy dressed up like a girl (the toys are his earring, and the blanket his skirt)

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Joy

My children bring me so much joy. Thank you God for allowing me to be their mother.IMG_7165IMG_7168IMG_7173IMG_7176xIMG_7178xIMG_7184xIMG_7187xIMG_7214xIMG_7215xIMG_7217xIMG_7218xIMG_7221xIMG_7220x

Aren’t they so special?

Sunday, June 8, 2014

The Birthday Parties

Every year around the boys’ birthday, I am struck by the amount of love and support we (and consequently the boys) have in our life. I am so thankful for our friends and family! Each year Sam and Seth are blessed with multiple parties, with many different people—all celebrating with us these joyful boys!

Our first party was with our Morris-side cousins. Their cousins Judah and Titus’ birthdays are also at the end of May so we usually do a combined party. This year we met at Sky High Sports and let the kids jump themselves tired on the trampolines. Seth and Sam had been asking to return there for a long time, and were thrilled to go with cousins!IMG_7027IMG_7014

The babies of the group: Selah and Josh

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We had the boys’ party on the Saturday before their actual birthday. They chose a football theme solely based on the football party hats we found at the store. I had fun looking for ideas on Pinterest and then was thankful for my mom helping me implement them. We even made 2 gluten free cakes that tasted amazing (and I have been craving cake ever since—it had been over a year since I had cake!) It was fun to have a cake for each boy to blow out his own candles on. IMG_7037

My mom carved this: didn’t it turn out awesome!?

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Dollar Tree table cloth and a little while paint…so easy fun!

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A cake for each boy

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Even Uncle Levi loved the party hats. And here’s Seth boy eating his nachos and fruit salad.

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The kiddos: the Gowen’s, Wesley and Seth and Sam.

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Josh had a rough evening, due to the fact that he had graced us with his presence at 5:45 am that morning. Thank goodness for Grandparents to hold him!

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Sam was so intent on reading his cards.

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Seahawks football helmets! (other gifts included swords, razor scooters, nerf guns, a Bible, and water guns. Later on their birthday Ben and I gave them the game Labyrinth, some new shoes, and a Dr. Seuss book each.)

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The big 5 year olds (Sam, Seth)

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Mike giving the boys their pre-game pep talk…it must have worked because they took Uncle Nate down

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Seth, Sam

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Logan running races with the boys; Mike and his girls

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Ben and I and are 5 year old twins (Sam, Seth)

On their actual birthday, my mom was still in town, so she could watch Josh while Ben and I took just Seth and Sam out. It was nice to not be constrained by a babies nap/feeding schedule. The boys picked “fishing” as their outing, and Ben, who’s not the biggest fan of fishing, took it in stride. Ben and I didn’t last long at the pond as the bites were non-existent and the seaweed plentiful. It was fun to be with boys’ on a sunny afternoon, though. We ended our afternoon with ice cream for Seth and Sam. IMG_7104

Such a good daddy!IMG_7105

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We love you Seth and Sam! Happy 5th birthday!

*A couple more notes that I didn’t include in their 5 year old summary:

-They are 44 inches and 40 lbs. They still weigh EXACTLY the same almost every time they weigh (which is almost every day)…even to the ounce. It’s crazy!

-They are such great helpers and hard workers! They love helping Ben and I, or our neighbors do yard work.

-They love singing, but have horrible voices. Today at church, they were singing very loudly, while trying to read the lyrics on the screen (which meant they were about 2 lines behind). The people in front of us kept cracking smiles, and commented to us after church on how sweet it was—I think they were being very gracious.

Monday, June 2, 2014

Joshua: 9 months

Our little Joshy had a busy month because he learned to CRAWL! Yikes. Our life has changed around here. He is into everything and is exploring each and every room and cupboard of the house. His favorite toy (of, course) is the boys’ lego bins, which are off limits. Anytime he sees Sam and Seth head to their room, he’s off after them, desperate to get his chubby little fingers into those bins and start sucking on lego wheels. So, here’s the new set-up for Seth and Sam’s room:IMG_7163

That way Josh can still be in the room with them, but cannot get into the legos. It’s a good compromise. Here’s what else Joshua has been up to this past month:

-He got his second double ear infection 3 weeks after his first. This time, as soon as he stopped falling asleep well and got fussy, we took him into the doctor. Frequent ear infections are a natural result of his cleft palate and it is possible that he may have to get tubes in even before his palate surgery in September. However, we are praying that he doesn’t have to!

-He has four teeth. One of his top teeth came in weeks before the other, so he has the most hilarious snaggle tooth, which he likes to showcase by a crooked smile.

-He still loves his solids and gets very excited while eating them. His favorite are peas and applesauce with cinnamon on it. He’s getting better at finger food. He’s taken his bottle better this month and is taking between 20-24 ounces a day.

-I have slowly started transitioning him to formula the past couple weeks; he takes about 8 ounces of formula a day now and isn’t spitting up too much. My goal is to be done pumping by the end of this month and I cannot even express how excited I am! I have already cut down to 3 pumps a day and it is magical! Woo hoo! Almost there!

-He’s been so content once he started crawling and loves exploring the house. He’s a little rascal and is into everything. He loves all the “no-no’s”: pushing stools around, opening cupboards, playing with legos. I swear if there is one thing in the room he isn’t supposed to play with, he will bypass all toys and find it!

-He has grown quite attached to Ben this month and expects Ben to pick him up the moment he gets home. Another son who adores his daddy—I am so blessed by my husband!

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And I had to save the best for last. This is the look we get most days…what a snaggle-toothed rascal!IMG_7158x