Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Being a Homemaker

I've been struck the last couple of weeks with how blessed I am to be a stay at home mom/wife...and moreover, how much I enjoy it! Maybe it just took me this long (about a year) to really adjust and get into the "groove" of things. At first, I always felt like I needed to show my husband a long list of things I accomplished during the day, beyond taking care of the kids, that is. (This is by no means Ben's fault!) I think coming off a job, where I was earning money and accomplishing tasks, I wasn't sure how to measure success at home. Slowly and surely, though, I've changed. I now know it's okay to stop and read a book for awhile, or to take an afternoon nap. More importantly, I now know that it's not just okay, but imperative that I stop DOING, and just spend quality time with my kiddos! While "playing with the boys" is not on my check-list, it really is the MOST important part of me being a homemaker. I want my kids and husband to remember me for the FUN that we had together, not because our house was in impeccable order. So, with all the said, we're having a lot  more fun these days. Posted below are some silly things we've done recently, including playing in the dryer and helping mommy cook in the kitchen. I even heard myself say to Ben the other day, "Maybe we should have the boys go play in puddles." Thank you Lord for helping me grow-up and realize that I should be having more fun!


(Seth, Sam)

1 comment:

  1. Such good things to realize! We can all take a moment to evaluate our priorities... family should always come first! And we should get the boys together... we've got some GREAT puddles and swamp land to go trompin' through down here! :)

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